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Jonathan Haber

Diagnose which stage your team is in

Name the stage you’re in before you pick a leadership response.

Key takeaways

  • What it is: Name the stage you’re in before you pick a leadership response.
  • Why it works: Each stage produces distinct behavioral signals — polite deference (Forming), open conflict or passive resistance (Storming), emerging peer-to-peer coordination (Norming), autonomous execution (Performing). Misreading Storming as a Norming relapse leads to interventions that accelerate nothing. Accurate diagnosis makes the leadership move obvious.
  • Evidence: Backed by observational / correlational evidence.
  • Avoid: Assuming a team is in Norming because conflict has gone quiet — silence is often suppressed Storming, not genuine norm-setting.

Why it works

Each stage produces distinct behavioral signals — polite deference (Forming), open conflict or passive resistance (Storming), emerging peer-to-peer coordination (Norming), autonomous execution (Performing). Misreading Storming as a Norming relapse leads to interventions that accelerate nothing. Accurate diagnosis makes the leadership move obvious.

How to do it

  1. 1List observable behaviors: are people deferring to you, fighting each other, self-organizing, or shipping without you?
  2. 2Map the dominant pattern to a stage — pick the one that accounts for the most of what you see.
  3. 3Name the diagnosis to the team; shared language about stages reduces the personalization of conflict.

What the evidence says

Observational

Tuckman’s 1965 literature review synthesized small-group research and is widely cited in organizational psychology as a descriptive heuristic. The model is descriptive, not prescriptive; its value is as a shared map, not a rigid law.

Honest caveat: Teams do not always progress linearly; membership changes or crises can push a Performing team back to Storming. The stages are tendencies, not guarantees.

References
  • — Tuckman, B. W. (1965). Developmental sequence in small groups. Psychological Bulletin, 63(6), 384–399.

Common mistake

Assuming a team is in Norming because conflict has gone quiet — silence is often suppressed Storming, not genuine norm-setting.

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