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Jonathan Haber

Add a behavioral action sequence to the back of the card

Pair the cognitive content (front) with a concrete behavioral sequence (back) — what to do, not just what to think.

Key takeaways

  • What it is: Pair the cognitive content (front) with a concrete behavioral sequence (back) — what to do, not just what to think.
  • Why it works: Under high arousal, even a well-written rational response may not be sufficient to shift behavior. A behavioral action sequence — specific, ordered steps — engages the procedural memory system, which is more robust to arousal than declarative recall. Implementation intentions research shows that pre-decided "if X, then Y" plans are significantly more likely to be executed than intentions alone.
  • Evidence: Backed by randomized trials / meta-analyses.
  • Avoid: Writing steps that are too vague ("breathe and stay calm") rather than concrete and sequenced — under distress, ambiguous instructions are skipped in favor of the default panic behavior.

Why it works

Under high arousal, even a well-written rational response may not be sufficient to shift behavior. A behavioral action sequence — specific, ordered steps — engages the procedural memory system, which is more robust to arousal than declarative recall. Implementation intentions research shows that pre-decided "if X, then Y" plans are significantly more likely to be executed than intentions alone.

How to do it

  1. 1On the back of the card, write three to five numbered steps: "1. Take one slow breath. 2. Read the front of this card. 3. Name three things I can see. 4. Rate my distress. 5. Call [name] if above 7."
  2. 2Include at least one grounding step and one social step (contact a person) for high-severity situations.
  3. 3The sequence should take less than five minutes to complete.
  4. 4Review it alongside the front in your daily practice.

What the evidence says

RCT / meta-analysis

Implementation intentions (pre-deciding what to do when a specific situation arises) substantially increase the likelihood of executing the intended behavior compared to goal-setting alone.

Honest caveat: Implementation intentions research is for planned behaviors generally; the application to crisis behavioral sequences is a direct extension, not an independently trialed version.

References
  • — Gollwitzer & Sheeran (2006), implementation intentions and goal achievement: a meta-analysis, Advances in Experimental Social Psychology

Common mistake

Writing steps that are too vague ("breathe and stay calm") rather than concrete and sequenced — under distress, ambiguous instructions are skipped in favor of the default panic behavior.

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