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Jonathan Haber

Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety

Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.

Key takeaways

  • What it is: Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
  • Why it works: Pre-performance anxiety is driven by anticipatory threat appraisal triggering the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis. Any interruption that shifts the autonomic balance toward parasympathetic before the event can reduce the amplitude of the cortisol and adrenaline spike. Havening touch combined with distraction gives the brain a competing input, lowering the threat prediction long enough for the arousal set-point to settle to a more manageable level.
  • Evidence: Practitioner experience / self-report; no formal study.
  • Avoid: Trying to reach zero anxiety before the event — some arousal improves performance. The goal is to move from debilitating to functional, not to eliminate all activation.

Why it works

Pre-performance anxiety is driven by anticipatory threat appraisal triggering the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis. Any interruption that shifts the autonomic balance toward parasympathetic before the event can reduce the amplitude of the cortisol and adrenaline spike. Havening touch combined with distraction gives the brain a competing input, lowering the threat prediction long enough for the arousal set-point to settle to a more manageable level.

How to do it

  1. 1Find a private space 5–10 minutes before the event.
  2. 2Rate your anxiety 0–10 so you have a before number.
  3. 3Run two or three complete arm-stroke cycles (shoulder to elbow) while humming a familiar tune.
  4. 4Briefly visualize the event going well — not perfectly, just competently.
  5. 5Re-rate your anxiety and accept any number that still lets you function; some activation aids performance.

What the evidence says

Anecdotal

Pre-performance anxiety is a genuine phenomenon with autonomic underpinnings. Relaxation techniques before performance have modest support in the sport and performance-psychology literature. Havening specifically in this context is based on anecdotal practitioner reports.

Honest caveat: No peer-reviewed study has tested Havening specifically for pre-performance anxiety against a control condition. The general principle (brief calming before activation) is sound; the Havening delivery is the novel, unstudied part.

Common mistake

Trying to reach zero anxiety before the event — some arousal improves performance. The goal is to move from debilitating to functional, not to eliminate all activation.

IX Coach offers a timed pre-event havening sequence accessible in under five minutes — brief enough to do before a meeting, presentation, or difficult conversation.

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