Should you "follow your passion" or develop your interests — and what does the research say?
Why "find your passion" backfires — and what to do instead
Paul O’Keefe and colleagues found that people who believe interests are fixed ("find your passion") tend to abandon pursuits when they get hard, while those who see interests as developed through effort stay curious and persistent. The evidence suggests "follow your passion" is not just unhelpful advice — it may actively discourage the effort that transforms shallow interest into deep, sustaining work.
The cultural advice to "follow your passion" assumes a passion is something you discover, fully formed, waiting to be found. O’Keefe’s research on implicit theories of interest challenges that assumption directly. What the data suggests instead: interests emerge through engagement, deepen with competence, and wither without effort — not the other way around. The practices here are about cultivating interest rather than hunting for it.
The practices (7)
Interest is partly a function of competence: when you can do something, it becomes more interesting because you can see farther into it. A beginner’s shallow interest feels weak precisely because the skill hasn’t opened the domain yet. Effort precedes passion in the developmental sequence; waiting to feel passionate before investing effort inverts the causal arrow.
- 1Identify an area with some initial pull — however faint — and commit to 30 focused hours before evaluating whether it’s "your thing."
- 2Track skill milestones, not passion level, in the early phase — interest will follow skill.
- 3Notice what gets more interesting as you get better, not just what felt interesting at first exposure.
O’Keefe’s experiments found that "develop your passion" versus "find your passion" framing affected how participants responded to difficulty: find-passion participants showed less interest when they hit obstacles; develop-passion participants maintained interest.
Honest caveat: These are lab experiments using hypothetical scenarios; the long-term real-world effects of holding a "develop" vs "find" mindset are inferred rather than directly tracked.
- — O’Keefe, Dweck & Walton (2018), Implicit theories of interest, Psychological Science
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